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The paradox of our time in history is that..
We have taller buildings, but shorter tempers.
Wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less.
We buy more, but enjoy it less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families.
More conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees, but less sense.
More knowledge, but less judgment.
More experts, but more problems.
More medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly,
laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly,
stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little,
watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life;
We've added years to life, not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor.
We've conquered outer space, but not inner space;
We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've split the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less;
We plan more, but accomplish less;
We've learned to rush, but not to wait;
We have higher incomes, but lower morals;
We have more food, but less appeasement;
We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication.
We've become long on quantity, but short on quality.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men, and short character; steep profits, and shallow relationships.
These are the times of world peace, but domestic warfare; more leisure,but less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition.
These are days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throw away morality, one-night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
1. Love does not hurt. Physical and/or
emotional abuse are not a part of love.
2. Love is not manipulative,
it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You
should never give in to demands based on the, "You
would do it if you loved me!" tactic.
3. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another
person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly,
familial) but it is always about caring.
4. Although it is true that a big part
of love is putting another person's happiness ahead
of your own this never includes compromising your values
or being untrue to yourself.
5. If somebody asks you to do something that you don't
want to do in order to "prove" your love they
do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love
another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part
of themselves in the name of that love.
6. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure
of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction.
7. It is possible to feel romantic love
for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it
is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same
time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for
two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally
if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure
to remain single and be open and honest with all parties
about your feelings and confusion.
8. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part
of romantic love but it is never mandatory.
9. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes
there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of
love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person
or your desirability.
10. Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated
do you ever think that sometimes you're just so involved
about being you that you accidently miss those little things
that fall in between? human beings are selfish. we're built to compete.
compete to win. win for mostly ourselves.
but its not until after we put down our mirrors, stepped
down from our pedestals, and toned down our egos, that we
realize we've forgotten about those little things
that make us tick. that make the heart skip a beat.
and thats when we falsely take things for granted.
people, unlike material necessities won't be around
forever. we forgive. we forget. but only for so long.
and then comes the harsh realization that you have truely
lost that one person.
and they'll choose to stay lost from you. perhaps forever.
Loving you was never an option... it was simply what i had to do.. My head's in a jam. I can’t take you off my mind.
From the time we met. I've been beset by thoughts of
you and the more that I ignore this feeling, the more I and
myself believing. That I just have to see you again.
I can't let you pass me by. I just can't let you
go. But I know that I am much too shy. To let you know. Afraid
that I might say the wrong words and displease you, Afraid
for love to fade, before it can come true.
Like a child again, I'm at a loss for words. How does
one define a crush combined with longing? I am longing to
possess you oh so dearly, I'm obsessed by you completely.
I'll go mad if I can't have you.
I can't let you pass me by. I just can't let you
go. Let me say the things and say the words. To let you know,
I would rather say the awkward words. Than lose you or for
love to fade. Before it can come true.
Loving you was never an option... it was simply what I had
to do..
There were two hearts which having a dance. That moment
was magical, there was a sweet song playing. There was harmony
and soon love was in the air. They fell in love, and they started
building castles in their dreams and promised forever
with all certainty. But somewhere in the midst of the fun
they got lost in the dance. Something went wrong, but they
can never do anything. They were just drifting away, their
fortress falling apart.
There were so many questions, but no one had an answer. Then
the music stopped, and there was silence.
When we truly love someone we give our best and let that person
see the pureness of our intention. But sometimes, that
person makes us cry and hurts us. That someone must have
loved us but he or she has not loved us enough to make her or
him stand for what truly feels.
Now we face a seemingly impossible task of forgetting.
We have burdened ourselves long enough. We cannot stand
for what we truly feel. But we still can’t get out of this
emotional trap.
Remember that the more we try to forget the someone we love,
the more painful letting go will become. We never take that
person out our of hearts at all. For out love is there to stay.
No matter how hard we try to drive him/her away. It is not
his/her presence that makes things difficult; it’s our
stubbornness to accept our destiny… that makes forgetting
impossible.
We keep a cold face, but deep in our hearts there is still
that lingering hope for reconciliation. Somehow, we still
believe that we can rekindle small embers and will light
a fire that once burned in our hearts.
These thoughts give us hope. But they also breathe the seed
of loneliness and despair.
The only way to forget is to accept and the only way to move
on is to look ahead. Let the footprints of the past be blown
by the time.
Only then, will our hearts find partners in the dance of
life
And hopefully… never got lost again.
Finding the right person is very hard and very
wrong...
it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there...
you'll always end up disappointed when you set
standards and define a "right person" for you...
and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow
God is preparing somebody for you.
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love
if you insist that you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand your real
feelings,to know who you
really are,and what you really want in a
relationship.You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.
If you already knew that you're too big to fit
into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.
You'll probably break it and pay for the damages
you have made..
If you knew and felt that the relationship
will not last, don't go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences
and live like hell for the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though,
but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live
life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention...
Then you will find that you have made the right
decision and you made it all by yourself.(dont
listen to others...
(you know what's good and what's best for u)
We call it love when we can't leave someone and
see them crying as we try to let go.
We are wrong, it's just pity.
We call it love when we're too attached
and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity..
But no matter what the definition is, the truth
still remains that love isn't something you can buy or beg.It is real and existing.
You can't touch it but you can feel it in your
heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,
but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy..
'never find love.let love find you'
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